You have probably been living at your new house for a few weeks and people are just now starting to get used to each other and their new routine. For many of your housemates this is probably the first time they share a house with someone other than their parents and if this is your case as well, you will probably have to make some compromises in order to integrate your lifestyle with that of 3 or 4 other people. Here are a few tips to keep in mind during your stay at a student accommodation Aberdeen University campus:
Keep the shared space neutral
Even though you might want to express yourself and create a place to your taste, you have to keep in mind that what you consider appropriate others might not like it so much, which is why you should keep your shared space as neutral as possible. Keep your decorations and artwork for your bedroom and avoid placing your beloved prints and posters in the common room if you don’t want to wake up with them in the trash after a few days.
Be mindful of the others
When you share a space with more than one person, disputes will inevitably show up, but as long as you try and respect the others as much as possible, you should be able to avoid major disputes. For instance, try to keep your stereo and TV at a bearable volume, especially when you see someone has a tough deadline they have to meet. It might be funny when you do it and someone gets mad, but the joke will be on you when you have an early morning exam and someone insists on watching Fast and Furious 7 at 3am in the morning.
Come up with a chores schedule
This is by far the subject that causes the most disputes, so take actions from the start and design a schedule that you all agree upon. After all, it is only fair to expect everybody to chip in with taking out the trash, washing the dished and cleaning the bathrooms. This is why the best way to deal with this situation is to create a schedule and some kind of ground rules from the start that will ensure that everybody pulls their weight around the house.
Ask before you invite your friends over
Even though you are within your rights to have friends over, it is a matter of courtesy to let your housemates know before they show up at your door. This is even more important if you have family over. Your housemates will surely appreciate the chance to gather their dirty socks from under the coffee table and tidy up the place a bit.
These are just a few tips that will help you get along with your housemates batter and avoid major conflicts. While it is inevitable for certain arguments to show up, provided that you are all mindful of each other, you should be able to get along just fine throughout the year.